Supporting your child to bounce back when results don’t go their
way. 

As parents, we all want to see our children succeed and reach their full potential. However, there will be times when their assessment results may not reflect the effort they’ve put in or the goals they’ve set for themselves. While this can be disappointing for both you and your child, it also provides a valuable opportunity to support their growth and resilience.

Our Year 12 students are currently receiving results from the recent Trial HSC Examinations. Whilst there are many areas for celebration, some students may be disappointed with their results. The window for bouncing back is open as students prepare for the HSC Examinations.

Here are some ways you can help your child navigate through this disappointing results:

Stay Positive and Encouraging: Your initial reaction can significantly influence how your child feels about their results. While it’s natural to feel disappointed, try to stay calm and focus on the positives. Highlight their efforts, improvements, and any areas where they performed well. Remind them that one assessment doesn’t define their overall abilities or potential. 

Open Up a Dialogue: Encourage your child to talk about their feelings regarding the results. Ask open-ended questions like, “How do you feel about your results?” or “What do you think you did well, and where do you think you could improve?” This will help them process their emotions and begin to think critically about what they can learn from the experience.

Focus on Growth, Not Just Marks: Help your child understand that assessments are just one measure of their progress. Discuss the importance of learning from mistakes and using them as a stepping stone for future improvement. Emphasise that growth and development are more important than a single grade or mark.

Set Realistic Goals Together: Work with your child to set achievable and realistic goals for future assessments. This might involve reviewing their studyhabits, time management, or seeking extra help in challenging subjects. Setting smaller, manageable goals can help them regain confidence and stay motivated.

Keep Communication Open with Teachers: Maintain regular communication with your child’s teachers to stay informed about their progress and any areas where they may need additional support. Teachers can provide valuable insights and work with you to develop strategies that will help your child succeed.

Remember, your support and understanding during these times can make a world of difference in how your child views challenges and setbacks. Together, we can help our students not only achieve academic success but also develop the resilience and determination they need for lifelong learning.

Thank you for your continued partnership in your child’s education.